WHAT EXACTLY IS PUPPY LOVE AND WHO DECIDES THE TYPE OF LOVE ONE IS INVOLVED IN? I’M QUITE SURE WE HAVE ALL EXPERIENCED OUR PARENTS OR GUARDIANS DEFINING THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WE’RE IN WHILE ATTENDING HIGH SCHOOL OR MIDDLE SCHOOL. “OH THAT’S JUST PUPPY LOVE.” BUT WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? IT IS A WAY TO DESCRIBE A JUVENILE RELATIONSHIP THAT IS DEEMED TO END MISERABLY OR IS IT A PLOY TO TRAIN YOUNG MINDS THAT LOVE HAS AN AGE REQUIREMENT?
LET US REMINISCE ABOUT OUR CHILDHOOD RELATIONSHIPS, WHERE ONE’S SALARY DIDN’T MATTER OR THE NUMBER OF DATES WASN’T A PRIORITY. SEX WAS ALWAYS ON A YOUNG MALE ADOLESCENCE’S MIND, BUT IT WASN’T PRIMARY. IT DIDN’T MATTER HOW MUCH SHE/HE SPENT ON CLOTHES OR NAILS OR HOW MUCH MONEY THEY HAD. IT WAS UNDERSTOOD THAT NO ONE REALLY HAD A JOB AND IT WASN’T AN ISSUE IF YOU LIVED WITH YOUR PARENTS OR GUARDIANS. OUR ONLY INTEREST WAS IN EACH OTHER. SPENDING COUNTLESS HOURS ON THE PHONE TO SEE THEM THE NEXT DAY AND MISS THEM ALL OVER AGAIN WHEN WE PART. ASKING OUR PARENTS FOR A DOLLAR EVERYDAY, TO SAVE UP FOR THE UPCOMING HOLIDAY, JUST TO SEE THAT SMILE ON THEIR FACE. WE DIDN’T FLATTER EACH OTHER OR GIVE GIFTS TO EXPECT SEX OR MONEY IN RETURN, IT WAS SIMPLY PURE INFATUATION OR LUST OR PERHAPS, TRUE LOVE.
OUR PARENTS MAY CALL THIS BEHAVIOR PUPPY LOVE, BUT HOW CAN THAT BE WHEN NO ONE WANTED ANYTHING FROM THE OTHER PERSON, OTHER THAN THEIR TIME, OR JUST TO HEAR THEIR VOICE. THAT’S THE TRUE LOVE THAT NEEDS TO EXIST IN OUR ADULT LIVES. OUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT RESEMBLE AN OUNCE OF OUR CHILDHOOD RELATIONSHIPS. MOST OF THE TIME IT’S ABOUT MONEY OR FASHION OR FAME; WE GET INVOLVE WITH PEOPLE NOW FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS AND TRY TO MAKE IT INTO SOMETHING ITS NOT. I, NOT ONLY WANT TO RELIVE MY CHILDHOOD, BUT HAVE THAT CHILDHOOD RELATIONSHIP IN MY ADULT STATE.
ARE YOU OUT THERE?
I guess they call it puppy love because they know at some point, as u get older, u might not be as interested in that person as u where before. Or maybe even vise-versa. I dont think that would happen unless perhaps the female would get pregnant and their family makes them get married. But who's to say the marriage would last? At the end of the day, "Good things don't last forever," so we gotta make the best of what we have now. If not, we gonna be searching for love in all the wrong places, being pickier and pickier everytime, until we end up miserable. we all need love whether its puppy or not. U'll find that special person when u least expect it, just dont let her slip under your nose
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