Are there any cons when people settle? For instance, if you have the proper education and the right tools to be a Network Engineer (someone who design computer networks), and you cannot find employment; should you take a data entry position if offered? Or perhaps an individual is very selective in the mate he/she chooses; should this person settle for the next available person, if the search is difficult?
If we look into everyone’s situation, there are probably many pros and cons to why a person made a particular choice. However, settling may result in failure in for long-term. Accepting someone’s flaws in the beginning may seem harmless, but after a while those flaws maybe quite an annoyance.
These are my opinions; however, they may be different results depending on the person and their experience. I am curious to hear for you. What do you think about settling?
Well if it were I who received a position in something other then what I am in the process of looking for, Ofcourse I would take the position being offered. Til you get to where it is you would like to be, money is the main issue, either do something your not to interested in and make money or keep waiting on something that may not come as soon as you like and stay broke. Another thing, the position that you weren't to interested in, in the beginning might just be the best job you ever came across and you may even end up staying in that position. Same thing goes for relationships, If I just started dating someone who isn't attractive to me at all as the usual men i've dated but he has the best personality ever especially compared to my ex's, he may just be everything I was missing in my last relationship's and again, may be the best relationship yet. So you never know what may come your way, life is all about chances, either you take them or you don't but how will you ever know the result if you didn't even try.
ReplyDeletei dont think you shoul ever settle for anything. as far as you not beinga able to find a job. i think its okay to settle for a job that is willing to hire you until you can get the job that you really want. theres no reason to be out of work when you could be working. as far as relationships. you cant pick and choose who you fall in love with.. so even tho they may have flaws there may be other things that attract them to you...
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ReplyDeleteThere aren't any problem when you select the perfect job for you, " that the way life is ", if you feel able, confidence and have accurent knowledge you must do what you feel but don't pay attention to others' choices results , remember each one has different puspose in life and different experiences
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Settling down is not an option if someone has an alternatives. If the alternative is only one than the job should be taken, unless one have enough resources to live, eat, go out , feed children, family and still look for work without working at this time.
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